Parenting
Seasonal Success for the Adoptive Family
For the adoptee of any age, the December holiday season can stir a myriad of complex emotions. Here are some insights based on our experience as clinicians.
Read MoreThe Gift of Forgiveness
The most valuable gift you can give to yourself this holiday season is the gift of forgiveness. Why forgiveness? Many of us carry unresolved issues from the past, like carrying a heavy ball and chain. It can be anger from a minor slight or the rage of a major grievance….
Read MoreThe Benefits of Hide and Seek for an Adoptee
How does an adoptee benefit from playing hide-and-seek? Many of the clients we work with have the perspective that “people leave and don’t come back.” Object permanence is an interesting concept from the perspective of the young adoptee….
Read MoreSorting Through Conflicting Feelings on Adoption Day
On National Adoption Day, approximately 5,000 children will be formally and legally adopted into “forever families” across the U.S. During this celebration, a child might feel excitement and joy, but also worry, sadness and much trepidation….
Read MoreMaking Time for the Important Things
It’s Sunday, early afternoon. I am standing in my parents’ kitchen in comfy clothes and socks as the warm light shines in through the window. I’m working on one counter – chopping away at the broccoli. My mom is working on another counter next to me….
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